Thursday, September 21, 2006

Cheating Signs: 8 Major Signs To Tell A Cheat!

Cheating Signs

My partner cheating?? Never! I mean, no one ever really goes into a relationship expecting betrayal. If that were the case, why would you trust them enough to have them be your mate in the first place? Weather looking for affirmation that your significant other is indeed having an affair, or if you want to convince yourself that absolutely nothing is going on, here are some signs that your significant other could be having an affair, and how to handle the situation best.

  1. Cheating spouses may lose attention in the activities in the home. They don't show interest in the livelihood of you or the children that live in the home. Nor do they have any desires to do any fix-ups to the home (i.e. lawn care, house repairs, etc.....)
  2. When they talk to you they treat you abusively or with disdain, disrespect or excessive sarcasm. They may also demonstrate an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship. Or. . . they may begin to find fault in everything you do in an attempt to justify their affair.
  3. When they ignore or criticize your affections and thoughtful ways. Example : "Why are you so luvy duvy? I'm just not like that." Or when you notice that they are reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection.

  1. Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.

  1. Grooming habits will change. Cheaters will be more attentive to their person (e.i. the way they dress, frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming of their hair, switching of colognes, etc...)

  1. Physical signs to look for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair are lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, checking underwear for secretion stains. You can also check their wallets and/or the glove compartments of their car to see if they left receipts, pieces of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, etc.

  1. When they begin to put distance between you or show a lack of interest in what has been the routine with few, if any, excuses for the change in their behavior.


8. Last but not least, trust your gut. If you find yourself needing to find excuses for your spouse’s behavior then that in itself is a warning sign. Your intuition about your life is frequently one of the best indicators available. If you suspect your spouse might be cheating on you, do some investigating and then confront him or her with what you’ve found.

1 Comments:

At 11:11 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

do underwear secretion in men's underwear always have to do with sex? or is it normal for them to leak out stuff during the day?

 

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