Check Your Prescription... It's Time For Some New Reality Glasses.

I bet you have the ability of discerning perception and reality. You have the objectivity that others seem to lack…right?

Well the truth is that we never see the world for what it really is. We are selective with what we notice, what we pay attention to, and experience. Most of the world moves past us with little knowledge or thought.

This is true when it comes to the minute details that compose life, up to the things that people tend to take for granted after they’re gone. But the question is, do people ignore their surroundings purposely, or is the wool just pulled over their eyes?

Well the answer depends largely on the person. Of course, there are a select few of people that may be oblivious to their environment moreso than others, but the majority of people have tunnel vision by choice. For example, have you ever been out on the town, and had someone recognize you from high school, yet you haven’t the slightest idea as to who they are? They said they had a class with you, and described who they hung out with, and it sounds as if they wouldn’t have been the type of person you’d be caught dead with. That would be a definite example of avoidance by choice.

I have mentioned in a previous article that the truth is commonly painful and uncomfortable; that is why people go out of their way to avoid those moments of misery. I mean, who wants to find out that the person that they have just spent the last X years or months with has been gravely dishonest? No one wants to experience the pain of deceit, so they ignore, avoid, and hope that they have nothing to worry about, or that the issue will disappear with time.

Knowing that you have been evading certain things in your life is hard enough to acknowledge, but now is the time to stop kidding your self, and to take a distinct step toward clarity. Don’t let nature run its course and hope for the best – take hold of what’s going on around you, and take action. You deserve the truth…start digging.

-Drew Bryant

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Editor's Note:
Edward Talurdey's "How To Catch Your Cheating Lover" takes you by the hand and shows you exactly what you need to do to find out the truth. The book isn't for those afraid to find the truth. If you are sick and tired of the uncertainty I suggest you check out the book here.
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