Infidelity 101: Two Things You Have To Understand!

*** INFIDELITY 101 ***


Let's start out by talking about the laws of nature.

When it rains you get wet. Big animals eat small animals.
If you don't drink water you will die. People cheat on each
other.

Did you catch the last one?

Human beings are not monogamous by nature. We don't mate
exclusively for life with the first partner we choose.

We have many mates throughout our lifetime.

And we don't just have sex to reproduce.

Some animals do. Human beings do not.

But when it comes to infidelity, people think that the laws
of nature do not apply to them.

They think that no one would ever cheat on them because
they're too good in bed, too good looking, too wealthy, too
good at this, too good at that and so on and so on.

"He would never do that to me, he loves me"

"She would never do that, she has it too good"

The #1 biggest, most notorious reason why affairs go
undetected is because people refuse to believe that it can
happen to them.

Well let me tell you right now that the laws of nature apply
to everyone -- including you.

I don't care who you are - a celebrity - a bum - a mother -
a father - a nobody.

Anyone, and I mean anyone, can cheat on you.

If you don't accept this fact, you will miss every little
thing your lover does that screams "I'm cheating on you".

Let me tell you a little story...

An old friend came to my door one day to cry on my shoulder
about the troubles he was having with his wife.

She was doing all of this strange things, he saw her hugging
another man in a parking lot, she wouldn't sleep in the same
bed with him and so on.

I mean any 6 year old could have seen she was cheating on
him.

It was that obvious.

But he refused to believe it.

Why?

Well here were his answers, in order:

1. He pays for everything and he doesn't cheat on her, so
why would she cheat?

2. He asked her if she was cheating and she said no.

3. He's smarter than her.

This is the perfect example of someone who doesn't think the
laws of nature apply to them.

He couldn't believe that someone would cheat on him. He
couldn't "get over himself".

And the fact of the matter is that almost everyone thinks
this way at one time or another.

If you don't believe that it can happen to you, if you think
that you are that one special person in the universe where
the laws of nature don't apply to you, you're going to have
a miserable time of it.

Want to know what ended up happening to my old friend?

He's currently going through a bitter divorce that he
doesn't want. She left him and was the one that filed. And
gee, she also has a boyfriend that works at the same place
she does!

And he still can't believe what's happening to him!

Does this sound similar to anyone you know?

Now let's recap the most important points for you to know:

1. You must accept the cold hard facts that anyone can and
will cheat on you. It's human nature. If you don't "get
over yourself" and accept this, you're in for a lot of
misery.

2. Don't ever expect your lover to admit to you that they
are having an affair. If you're waiting for this to happen,
it will be the longest wait of your life.

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As always, if you have any comments, questions, and/or concerns then feel free to leave a comment.


-Drew Bryant